
You can heal most anything troubling you in your life through the image of the lotus flower.
Place a picture of a lotus flower, or an actual lotus flower on a table near your yoga practice. Starring at the lotus, concentrate on the flower till you can close your eyes and still see the flower.
Image your life as the flower. The flower reaches to survive toward the light. Instead of negativity in your life strive to see the light of any situation you are dealing with in your current life. The lotus stands in water, just as you do stand in your life, but the flower is not the water, it's just the water is around it. Image your life in the same manner. The problems are around you, but they are not you.
Mediate on this and any negativity that comes through your mind during this time let them fade away and think of them as around you, but they do not define you. Problem people are around you, but they do not define you. Those who anger us control us. Don't let what is around you control you. Before you open you eyes say to yourself. "I am me, whom and what is around me does not define me." Remember this during problem situations and dealing with problem people that can not accept you for you. And you will come out smelling like a beautiful flower.